if my husband loved me

Lo and I love to talk.

and we love to hang out all the time.

One item of business she brought up was a conversation that started: "if my husband loved me."

Talking to Lo has helped me learn more about what I search for in a man.

Logan said that if her husband really loved her, he would pick some wildflowers for her on his way home from work.

If my husband really loved me, he would tell me often that I am a beautiful person.  If he loved me, he would support me in all my efforts to make the world a better place.  And he would spontaneously take me to do something adventurous.

Lo and I could go on and on.

I have come to learn that I really appreciate humility and patience.  I love it when I am respected for who I am and am treated politely.

Of course, this is a two way thingimajig.

I have to do all these things, too.  So that I can grow into a better individual and eventually work well with a man that I'll spend eternity with.